Cemetery Visit

So I went to Watkins Cemetery in the Broken Bow/ Glover area at night. It was one heck of an experience. My head hurt really bad because of all the voices I was hearing at once and all the spirits I had seen. There was a woman who was very angry because her daughter had not come out to put flowers on her grave in several years. I did not catch her name, but if you have not put flowers on your mom's grave in Watkins Cemetery in a few year, please go do it! I was really wanting to get out of there because of the stress. We went back 2 days later, during the day, to visit my husband's mother's grave. I told him that I would talk to her for him and it was really emotional. He asked her questions that no one but her could possibly know. The answers were dead on (no pun intended). It is nice to reconnect my husband to his mother, but it is bitter-sweet because he cannot see her, but I can. I have been working on calling spirits to me. It hurts my head really bad though when I do it. I heard that is normal when you first start out, but who knows. I wish I could control this "gift" better. I have been watching that show "Psychic Kids: Children of the Paranormal". It has helped me to understand a little better what is going on.